My Handmade Wedding Dress: Part 2

Wedding Photos by Isle + Oak Photography

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So nearing a year after my wedding I should probably wrap up recording all the details of this project! I posted a Part 1 (which you can click here to read) where I talked about the materials and supplies I was using, the design sketches, embroidery samples and the mock-up of the dress. I’m going to wrap up everything else in this blog post, which mainly includes the embroidery on the silk organza, hand sewing the dress, and then some final photos from the wedding!

The embroidery motifs I came up with were all pretty fast to stitch, and the little beaded starbursts were really fast and satisfying to stitch onto the organza as well. I think what ended up being more time consuming (and maybe it just felt like that because it wasn’t that thrilling to do), was all of the tracing! I had a little sheet of the 9 motifs I was using, and I traced those onto a paper copy of the dress pattern where I wanted the embroidery to be. I tried to place everything randomly and kept flipping and rotating the motif’s so that they would look a little more unplanned. I then traced these arrangements onto a water soluble interfacing (affiliate link) which I then basted onto my organza fabric for stitching. But once I got to this point and had all of my pieces prepared for stitching I felt like I started to breeze through the actual embroidery.

Wedding Photos by Isle + Oak Photography

The silk organza was going to be the top layer of my dress, so I couldn’t start actually putting the dress together until all of that was done. This made me a little nervous because we were getting closer and closer to the wedding and I didn’t actually have anything coming together that looked wearable! This was the point when I basically had to ditch the sleeves. I had everything else embroidered, and I had just started on the organza for the sleeves, and my anxiety started getting the better of me. I needed to start constructing this dress! I decided that I would make the sleeveless version of the Lune Dress and if I had time before the wedding I would make some detachable sleeves for it (spoiler: I didn’t have time for them!).

Sewing the dress itself took many, many hours. I talked in Part 1 about how I would be entirely hand-sewing this dress. The fabric was just too delicate to risk running through my machine, especially with all the time-consuming embroidery already done. Also, because the organza is sheer, you can also see the seam finishings from the outside, so I wanted them to be very neatly whip-stitched. The dress was three layers overall: the organza over layer, the silk charmeuse main layer, and a silk habotai lining layer. Looking back I wish I would have machine sewn the lining layer to knock a couple days off the construction of the dress, but I think I just got into a mindset that the entire thing had to be hand sewn. By that point for the lining I was just hand sewing to say I did it.

Anyways it all came together and I am really happy with the overall look of it and with the details of the dress. The hem ended up surprising me a little bit in the best way. It almost flares out a little bit where I sewed it, reminding me of a flower shape, which makes this wedding dress feel straight out of a fairy garden scene.

This definitely tops my list of projects I am most proud of in my life. From how much time went into it, to everything new I tried and learned, to the way I felt when wearing it, I just couln’t have imagined a better outcome! I hope you enjoy the photos and I hope this post inspires you to try something just a little bit bigger than you think you can handle, you might surprise yourself!

I also ended up using the piece of embroidery that I had started for the sleeves before I decided to scrap the sleeve idea. We framed a couple of our wedding photos for a photo wall in our apartment, and so to complement the arrangement I framed the embroidery piece in a vintage frame I ordered from Etsy. It looks like I cut a piece of the dress for framing but really the dress is still completely intact and stored away!

This dress, along with a couple of my other projects were featured in Issue 36 of Love Embroidery Magazine. You can order the magazine here.

Some other related links:

Wedding Dress Part 1: Planning, Mock-up, and Embroidery Samples

Our Wedding Photographers: Isle + Oak Photography

Silk Organza Fabric: Maiwa

Silk Charmeuse Fabric: Rokko Fabrics

Silk Habotai Lining Fabric: Maiwa

Beads: Beadworks on Granville Island

Embroidery Thread: DMC Six-Strand Embroidery Floss (affiliate link)

Interfacing: Wash-away water-soluble interfacing (affiliate link)

Dress Sewing Pattern: Lune Dress by French Poetry

Vintage Oval Frame: Carter & Wainwright on Etsy

Wedding Dress Part 1: Planning, Mock-up, and Embroidery Samples

Sewing a wedding dress seems like it ought to be the culmination of my sewing career, although I do hope that’s not the case, I hope there’s some more fantastic projects in my future. The wedding dress just feels different because, when will I have a chance to wear something like this again? This is a big one, and it might be my most exciting make for the next little while.

There are a lot of reasons why I’m approaching this in a very thought-out and well-planned way. Mainly because that’s just me, I don’t tend to ‘wing it’. But also: because I don’t really feel confident sewing with such delicate (and expensive!) fabric, I’ve never actually made a full-length dress, and I really want this one to fit me well. For everyday wear I think a more casual fit is nice, but for my wedding dress? I want this one to fit me like a glove, perfectly tailored. So I’ve actually spent about a month now doing the set-up for this dress. I found a sewing pattern that I fell in love with, the Lune Dress from French Poetry. And you can probably tell from all my recent makes that I need to incorporate embroidery into this, so I decided to do a sheer embroidered overlay or overdress. A vision of this was starting to form in my head.

So a couple things to work out. Will this pattern sew up like I’m imagining? What fabrics am I going to use for the dress, and for the sheer overlay? And lastly, what am I going to embroider on it?

I started with a mock-up or a test run of the Lune Dress pattern. I sewed the mock-up in a lightweight cotton with a tulle overlay, because I already had the cotton in my stash and the tulle cost only a couple dollars a meter. The tulle actually was in the running for the final fabric, but more on that later. The pattern is just incredible, it was so easy to sew up, and not only are the instructions great but there is also a ‘sew-along’ video for it on the French Poetry website. I did have to make a couple changes to make the overlay work, and it was really helpful just to practice all the steps and make my own notes on what helped me. I feel really confident sewing the final dress now that I’ve already gone through the steps once. The fit was pretty good too. I forgot  to take a picture of the ‘before’ fit but basically I just had to take out the waist a little at the side seams, shorten the shoulders, make the dress longer, and then tweak a small fit issue at the centre front.  

As for my fabric choices, I chose an off-white silk charmeuse as the underdress. A silk habotai light weight (8mm) silk for the dress lining. And for the overdress I was torn between the tulle I used on the mock-up and a silk organza. I love how sheer the tulle is, but I honestly struggled a bit working with it on the mock-up. It was so slippery and so hard to see what I was cutting, and the one I was using was very weak! It even ripped a little when I was trying on the mock-up, which really wouldn’t work for hugging and dancing and just the general merriment one does on their wedding day. So I started considering a silk organza I had in my stash. It seemed like it might be too stiff, it just didn’t have the same drape as the tulle, but it is such a beautiful fabric, and it is very strong too. So I decided to do an embroidery swatch on both fabrics. 

These swatches gave me the chance to practice the type of embroidery I want to do on the dress, and I got to see how each embroidered sheer fabric would look overtop the silk charmeuse. This process sold me on the silk organza, it was just so much more enjoyable to work with, and I was more excited when I held it in my hands. As for the drape, I spent some time googling silk organza dresses and wedding dresses, and I found lots of beautiful examples. I think as long as the fabric is cut the right way then it will drape in a nice feminine way. There are of course a lot of seamstresses who make very boxy garments with organza, but I don’t think with the pattern I’m using it will be boxy at all.

And my embroidery turned out exactly as I hoped. Lots of floral and botanical elements and then the beaded starbursts just make me so happy. It’s all enjoyable to stitch and not too time consuming (which is very important, considering this dress has a deadline!).

So that’s pretty much where I am now. I feel really confident to power ahead on the final dress. I am going to be hand stitching the entire thing because the thought of putting these fabrics anywhere near my machine just stresses me out. I’ve never had luck sewing fabrics like this and I would just much rather turn on some music and stitch away by hand. In fact I’ve been following a couple hand sewing teachers lately and have really been preferring that process. I bought myself an instructional book called Hand Sewing Clothing: A Guide by Louisa Owen Sonstroem so that I would have as many tips and tricks before I really got started on this dress. So this week I will be working on thread tracing all my pattern pieces. This is essentially drawing the pattern pieces onto your fabric using basting stitches. I always do this anyways for embroidered panels but for this project I’m going to try it for all the pattern pieces. It will make for some very precise sewing. Then I need to plan all my embroidery pattern arrangements for each pattern piece, and then it’ll be onto the mammoth portion of this project: the embroidery! 

Supplies and resources I’m using so far:

Sewing a Nightshirt from a Thrifted Texmade Ibex Bedsheet

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Since I've started obsessively thrifting I have a new joy for sewing and embroidery. This was my first full circle project that started with me getting giddy in a thrift store about a Texmade Ibex bed sheet that brought me right back to my childhood. I love that feeling of nostalgia I get in thrift stores, but the sheet had so many holes and stains that I just enjoyed the memories that seeing it brought me, and then carried on my way. As I worked my way through the rest of the thrift store I just could not stop thinking about it. When I was younger my siblings and I had these same flannel bedsheets (in a different colour way) and we also had matching pyjamas made out of the same striped flannel. On top of that my teddy bear even had matching pyjamas! So when I got the idea to turn this damaged sheet into an adult version of those pyjamas I basically ran back to the linen department of the thrift store to scoop it up.

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This nightshirt wasn't exactly on my list of things to make for the upcoming season, or for my home, but it was just such a fun idea in my head that it got bumped to the front of my project queue and I've been working on it almost non-stop for the last month. I wanted to make it really special with some embroidery on the front pocket and the edges finished with the same blanket stitch that the sheet edges are finished with. I'm using a vintage sewing pattern here that I found on Etsy: Butterick 6885. It's a unisex pattern for a nightshirt and pants. After cutting out the pieces for the nightshirt it looks like I might have enough leftover to make some shorts, but anyways that will be a later project, I usually just sleep in a nightshirt anyways.

For the pocket piece I cut it in a way that would be mostly blank fabric with just a bit of the stripe running along the top. I needed a blank canvas for the embroidery but I still wanted it to tie in nicely with the stripes on the shirt. I used an embroidery pattern by Sarah K. Benning called Summer Flowers. It's not available currently on her website but a couple times a year she will do a re-release of all her old embroidery patterns. It was a pretty fiddly embroidery pattern but my main frustration with it was that I just could not get the pattern transferred onto the fabric. Usually to transfer patterns I just trace them with pencil or use some graphite transfer paper, but the flannel was too fluffy for this and it was so hard to get even the most basic shape of the flowers down. So basically I ended up just eyeballing it flower by flower which worked well enough. Next time I work with flannel I'm going to buy some of that paper that you print the pattern onto, embroider, and then it dissolves away in water. There was also a lot of outlining on this pattern but I actually loved that and found it very relaxing.

Once I had the embroidery done I could cut out the pocket piece and start assembling the night shirt. Attaching the pocket is the first step of the pattern so I couldn't start the until the embroidery was done. The shirt came together very fast, only slowed down by the fact that I wanted to do so much hand-stitching on it. I used a closed blanket stitch to attach the pocket and hem the bottom of the shirt, and I used chain stitch around the collar and the sleeve cuffs. I am so happy with this nightshirt, it almost feels too beautiful to wear to bed.

Making this just really made me so enthusiastic about all the possibilities there are when it comes to thrifting. I would have never thought to make something like this if I hadn't seen the sheet and got the inspiration from that first. Another section in the thrift store that I've been getting a lot of inspiration from is the table linens. There are often such beautiful hand embroidered napkins and tablecloths. Sometimes stained from years of families gathering and enjoying meals, but if cut the right way could be made into summer dresses, camisoles (something like my Wattlebird Cami), and baby clothes. Anyways, now back to my list of things I would actually like to have done by summer! I would like to sew a couple more lightweight summer dresses and I have a wedding dress I need to start planning as well!

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Some more posts for you to check out:

Wattlebird Cami and Fawn Skirt Pattern Review

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If I've ever poured all my love and energy into making something it was this project right here. My avocado dyed, hand-embroidered, hand-finished Wattlebird Cami & Fawn Skirt set. I started this project with the intention to make the Wattle-Fawn Dress hack, but it evolved into separates that can be worn together to look like a dress. This is the most involved I've ever been in the process of making a garment, and that makes me so proud of the finished pieces.

The Wattle-Fawn dress is a mash-up of two patterns by Common Stitch: the Wattlebird Cami and the Fawn Skirt. I bought the PDF version and had the pattern printed at my local copy shop so I wouldn't have to do any paper piecing. It was an investment to buy this pattern (which Common Stitch sells as a package including both individual patterns), but I really think I'll get a lot of use out of it. I love both the cami and skirt on their own, and I think I'll be doing plenty of future sewing from these patterns.

The fabric I used for this project is a handwoven 100% linen from Maiwa Supply. I dyed the fabric naturally using avocado skins and pits to get the peachy pink colour (you can read more about that here). I cut all my pieces like usual, except for the front cami piece. Because I knew that I would be embroidering that one I thread basted where I would be cutting later, and then left myself plenty of fabric all around that thread basted line so that the piece would comfortably fit into my embroidery hoop. I decided not to sew a mock-up for this dress, mainly because I'm not usually too picky about how garments like this fit. The Wattle-Fawn dress is designed to be a loose fitting flow-y dress without too much structure (and also no sleeves to fit!) so I figured I wouldn't have a problem just jumping straight into it, and making small adjustments later if necessary. Of course this bit me in the butt later when I realized that the dress was a little too shapeless for my preference, but turning it into a set of separates was a quick fix for that.

I wanted an all over embroidered floral print for the cami piece, so I tested a couple flower ideas on some scrap avocado dyed fabric, and once I had my plan I sketched it all out on my thread basted piece with pencil, measuring to make sure the flowers were equally spaced. Pencil doesn't wash out as nicely as a marker made for this purpose, but it's what I had on hand and I would be covering it all up with embroidery anyways. I went about embroidering, and 38 hours of stitching later (spread out over a couple weeks of course) I was ready to start assembling.

I wanted to cover the back side of the embroidery because I thought it might irritate my skin, so I lined just the front cami piece with another piece of the same pink linen. I used the flat-lining method, essentially cutting a double of the piece I wanted to line, laying them on top of one another, and from that point treating it as one single piece. Flat-lining gives you a chance to finish things really beautifully by hand, hiding stitches and seams in the lining. One of Bernadette Banner's videos explains the flat-lining process really well: linked here. I also hand finished all of the binding and straps because every time I try top-stitching fiddly bits like this on my machine it never turns out as straight or neat as I prefer.

I pieced together the skirt, getting mildly frustrated by all the gathering, but it came together fairly quickly. I basted the cami to the assembled skirt because I though I might want to shorten it, and it was here when I tried it on to fit that I realized it was not quite the look I wanted. The lack of a defined waist coupled with all the volume in the skirt was just making me feel shapeless. I decided to take them apart and just hem the cami and keep it as a classic Wattlebird cami, and finish the skirt as a separate at well. The Fawn Skirt is finished with an elastic waist, which gave me the waist definition I wanted. I'm pretty happy with this solution because I feel like I will get a lot of wear out of the cami on it's own, making the garments a lot more versatile than if I just had the dress.

If I do decide to try the dress hack again it would be with a much more drape-y and flow-y fabric, and I would probably insert ties in at the waist seams so that I could cinch the waist in and tie a bow at the back. But for now I'm smitten with my outcome from this first try and looking forward to a summer in avocado pink!

How I Wrap My Embroidery Hoops (and Why I Do It!)

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While I don't consider myself experienced with embroidery, even this one little tip has made everything I finish look so much better. I started wrapping my embroidery hoops and it has helped both with making my process easier, and with improving the look of the finished piece:

  • Wrapping helps to create a tighter working surface with the fabric, and I find the fabric doesn't loosen as I'm working.

  • When I'm working on a larger piece and have to move the hoop around the fabric, the softer surface of the wrapped hoop doesn't "squish" my worked embroidery as aggressively as the exposed wood does.

  • When I take my work out of the hoop I find the crease from where the hoop was sitting is less prominent and a little easier to iron out (although I still recommend taking your fabric out of the hoop whenever you are not actively working on it, to give the fabric time to rest).

A lot of resources suggest wrapping your hoop with some scrap fabric and glueing down the tails to the hoop. While this works just as wonderfully, I wanted my hoops to look a little more polished, and I wanted to avoid glueing anything to my hoops. So I've been wrapping all of my hoops with some linen tape, which I love the look of, and when I wrap tight and sew the ends down to the tape itself I find there's no movement while I'm working and the tape stays snug.

It also seems a lot of people prefer to wrap the inner hoop instead of the outer. This would still help with maintaining a tight hold on your fabric, but it wouldn’t do as much to protect your embroidery from getting squished by the hoop, so I prefer to wrap the outer hoop for that reason.

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To wrap your hoop you'll need:

  • linen tape (I use 1/2" Dutch Linen Tape from Burnley & Trowbridge)

  • thread (I use linen thread, waxed with beeswax, both from Burnley & Trowbridge, but any sewing thread will do)

  • sewing needle

  • embroidery hoop

  • thimble

  • craft clamps (I use similar clamps to these)

  • scissors

To start, I set aside the inner hoop, and I wrap the tape around the outer hoop a couple times. I wrap nice and tight, and use a couple clamps to hold this in place while I work on securing the starting tail. I leave myself a tail a couple of inches long to work with. This next part is a little fiddly. I basically play with positioning the tail of the linen tape (folding and trimming until it looks nice), and then whip stitch the end down to the tape already wrapped around the hoop. If the tape is wrapped really tight, you'll find that it doesn't shift around, even without glue.

Once I have that attached, I very carefully wrap the tape around the hoop, being mindful to keep the edges lined up (and not overlapping) and to keep the wrapping tight.

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When I get back to the metal clamp I need to secure this end as well. Again I use clamps to secure the work I've done, and cut myself a tail a couple inches long. I finish the end the same way I started the tape: fiddling until it looks nice, and then whip stitching the end edge down to the tape already wrapped around the hoop. To finish the loose strings I do a couple extra stitches in place, and then weave the thread into the linen tape before cutting the end.

I hope you found this useful. You could also use cotton twill tape or strips of fabric with this same technique. Happy embroidering!